Jen Hatmaker believes backbone is the birthright of every woman. Women have been demonstrating resilience and results since forever. They have incredibly strong shoulders to bear, loss, hope, grief, and vision. She laughs at the days to come, is how the ancient wisdom writings put it. But somehow women have gotten a message that pain and failure mean they must be doing the wrong, that they messed up the rules or tricks for a seamless life. As it turns out, every last women faces confusion and loss, missteps and catastrophe malfunctions, no matter how much she’s doing right. Struggle doesn’t mean she’s weak. It means she’s alive. Jen parlays her own triumphs and tragedies into a sigh of relief are all normal, fierce women everywhere who, like her, sometimes hide in the car, eating crackers, but also want to get back up and get back out, to live undaunted in the moment no matter what the moment holds.